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5 Ways to Keep Romance in a Relationship

Posted on: November 16th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Romance should never end

Romance should never end

Do you still have romance in your relationship? Romance is a necessary element in a relationship no matter how long you’ve been together.

It isn’t unusual for someone to tell me they just don’t have the same feelings of romance they did when the relationship was young. It is normal for a relationship to be a bit different from the first few dates or the honeymoon phase because your romance was in the discovery stage.

The worst thing that can happen in a romance is to take each other for granted and be complacent about the relationship.

When a romance begins, you give lots of attention to each other. You make each other feel as though they were the only other person in the world. That is exactly what you want to keep doing, even though you don’t have to take the same amount time as you did then. To kindle romance, you simply have to keep courting your love!

In fact, it’s the little things that keep the romance on fire. When you are aware of not taking your partner for granted, it is not hard to create little habits that will keep romance alive.

Kindle romance by: always smiling and showing your gratitude for your partner when he or she enters the room.

Romance keeps love alive no matter your age

Romance keeps love alive no matter your age

Kindle romance by: sending them love messages a different way than usual, perhaps in a surprise note, an email or text.

Kindle romance by always take the time to say thank you and being polite. Courtesy breeds romance and shows you care.

Kindle romance by going out of your way to find their favorite type of food, or drink, or something that will make them happy.

Kindle romance by continuing to date in romantic places.

To keep romance you must continue to court your love if you want to keep your love.

Now you know how to kindle romance, you must learn the love secret of saying at least 5 positive things to every negative thing you may state to your partner.

The Most Important Factor in Marriage

Posted on: November 5th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen


Gratitude is the number one thing that creates a happy marriage

Gratitude is the number one thing that creates a happy marriage

It may surprise you that gratitude is important in a successful marriage. In fact, gratitude is the most important factor to a satisfying, long-term marriage.

A 2005 study (Schramm, Marshal and Harris) found that higher satisfaction in marriage occurs when the parties actually express gratitude to their mate. Appreciation was listed as one of the most important factors to a satisfying long-term marriage.

Newlyweds also viewed partners who expressed gratitude in a more loving way.

The partners who expressed gratitude in their relationship regularly for 3 weeks actually saw their marriage become stronger.

How does gratitude affect a relationship? It was found in a study by Lambert and Fincham in 2011, that when you express appreciation for something about your partner, it gives your partner a more positive view of you. It also helps the marriage partners to feel more invested in a long term relationship, as well as both partners in the marriage being able to voice concerns in the relationship.

How can you express gratitude in your marriage?

  • Help your marriage by looking for things you like about your partner and then sharing it
  • Help your marriage by expressing gratitude in a way you wouldn’t normally do so, such as leaving a note
  • Help your marriage by doing little things that you normally wouldn’t, such as making something special that you know will be appreciated

Now you know the number one love secret to improve your marriage, get going on your new gratitude habit today. Create the best marriage you can have by incorporating tiny little things daily.

What is the Secret?

Posted on: October 12th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen

What is the Secret? I have your answer! However, let me warn you, it’s not what you expect. ‘What is the secret?’ is the exact question I asked myself when I was so far in debt it would have taken me 203 years to pay them off. ‘What is the secret’ is the same question that was on my mind when I was told by medical specialists I had no more than ten years to live. ‘What is the secret’ is the exact question I was asking when I woke up one day and realized the sad state of everyone one of my dysfunctional relationships.

When I discovered the answer to ‘What is the Secret’, every aspect of my life changed. Immediately, I was on my way to making my first million dollars. I regained my health and decades later I still have 100% clean bill of health. Today, I enjoy fulfilling relationships in all areas of my life. I have a beautiful life, and it’s all because I found the answer to the question, ‘What is the Secret?’ This can happen to you, too!

When you know the coveted answer to, what is the secret, you will know the means by which you currently design your life; you will know why every dollar, every million dollars-or lack of them-has come into your life. You will know why every person and every situation has been attracted to you. To be truly happy in life, you must know the answer to ‘What is the secret?’

I’ve met with a lot of people lately who are feeling depressed, frustrated, and sad. They aren’t getting what they want. They’ve taken motivational and personal development classes, however their lives aren’t changing. They are yearning to know, ‘What is the secret?’ Do you know the secret? Do you have everything you need in your life? What is the secret to living your dream? What is the secret to getting more out of life? What is the secret to make more money, have amazing relationships, and vibrant health? Once you have that answer, you can have it all. I’ve figured it out for you. I have your solution! Let me guarantee you my answer to ‘what is the secret’ is one you’ve never heard before!

What is the secret? The Law of AttractionThe answer to your question ‘What is the secret?’ is that there are 3 simple Keys to a lifetime of happiness. These 3 keys have everything to do with how you obey the law of life. Which law is that? Emerson called it the Law of Compensation. Is this universal law new? Of course not-it’s ancient; however a lot of information on how to use it is new. It’s like the law of gravity. You can’t see it or feel it–however, it affects you every moment you live and breathe.

This law is as workable and exacting a science as physics, math, or music. Einstein wondered, ‘what is the secret?’ and then revealed it in his famous formula, E-mc2. He said everything which appears stationary is actually moving energy which is constantly vibrating. Science has shown that everything has an energy field: you, your desk, pet, plants, food, everything. Your energy fields can radiates around you 18 to 25 feet. You are constantly exchanging your energy with people and things around you. What you think, feel and say, what you wear, and what is around you in your environment is a result of the energy that you radiate. What is the secret? It is that you are a living, breathing energy. You actually have three critical energy fields. The real secret is that you use this law, the Law of Attraction, in all three of your energy fields: In you, On you, and Around you, to create your life. What is the secret? When you learn use the Law of Attraction from inside out, you fully experience power and benefits in your life.

What is the Secret to the Law of Attraction WITHIN YOU:

Key #1-‘What is the Secret?’ The first key teaches you how to change your mindset. You create your tomorrow with your thoughts and feelings of today. Everything you have, or don’t have, today, is a result of what you were thinking and feeling yesterday. Your unconscious mind creates your life. You have the power to consciously reprogram your unconscious mind. It’s as simple as putting new software into a computer. What is the secret? Use Imagery, which is on-purpose imagining. When you use imagery correctly, it makes huge changes in your life quickly. Things in your life change to the degree that you change your mind.

What is the secret to the Law of Attraction ON YOU:

Key #2-Most people think the Law of Attraction is only at work in their lives by what they think, say, and feel; basically they only work with what’s inside them and forget what’s on the outside. What is the secret that most people don’t know? One secret is that your energy does not stop at your skin. The energy on you, what you wear, is vitally important in creating the life you want. Colors, textures, fabrics, and designs all have energy and send out messages about you. Each person has specific colors, textures, and designs that enhance who he or she really is. Learning to dress in a way that resonates with your personal energy is little known answer to, ‘What is the secret?’ When you use the Law of Attraction in your dress, you show others on the outside, who you really are on the inside. When you use your energy in your dress, the way you present yourself to the world, you enjoy increased profits, empowering relationships, and feel more energized-and have another answer to ‘What is the secret?’

What is the Secret to the Law of Attraction AROUND YOU:

Key #3-It’s creating an environment that will attract money, fulfilling relationships, health and vitality, and a confident self esteem.  The influence of your surroundings is at work 24 hours a day, every week of your lifetime. The flow of energy in your home greatly influences whether you are achieving your goals or blocking your dreams. Research reveals that your brain waves literally change according to what you have in your surroundings. What is the secret? The secret is that you are a living, breathing, energy field and your environment is part of that field. You can change your life and level of happiness by changing the energy in the surroundings around you.

What is the Secret? Here’s a BIG one!

The Law of Attraction isn’t just a concept. Concepts don’t attract anything. I teach you the action steps behind the concept to create attraction! It’s no mistake the word ‘action’ is within the word ‘attraction’! This is one of the biggest reasons why people who ask ‘What is the Secret’ think it doesn’t work. They don’t know how to take action  to get the attraction.

In the only complete, easy to use, step-by-step ultimate guide to the Law of Attraction, the ATTRACTION IN ACTION WOW System, I give you the3 keys to take action in all three areas of your energy field.

Discover the most coveted secrets of how to change your life. I share my most intimate knowledge and top-secret techniques. You’ll say WOW when you discover the secrets in the WOW System. Discover new internal programming and behavior patterns that will catapult you to know exactly ‘What is the Secret?’ You will build habits of thought and action that guarantee your success.

Stop trying to figure out how to change your life the frustrating, old-fashion way. It’s time to try something different. Set yourself apart from 99% of all others who are wondering ‘What is the Secret?’ to a happy and prosperous life.I hold nothing back in my answer to ”What is the secret? in the only complete, ultimate Guide to the Law of Attraction, the WOW SYSTEM.’ When is a better time to start than right now?

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What is the Secret to a Powerful Visualization?

Posted on: August 11th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen

What is the secret to a powerful visualization

What is the secret to  a powerful visualization? There is a very important secret to experiencing a creating a powerful visualization that manifests quickly, and it’s one that not many people take the time to use. I’m sure you already know that the images you hold in your mind create your physical reality, however most everyone misses the key ingredients of visualization.

What is the secret to a powerful visualization? Successful people know it because they have used mental pictures, mental rehearsals, and mental imaging for years to accomplish their goals. Olympians, piano players, professional athletes, all have practiced their skills in their minds long before accomplishing the real thing.

One of my talented granddaughters, who shines when she dances on stage, has learned the advice I gave her long ago really pays off.  She goes through her dance routines in her head each night before bed. This technique has really done its magic with her. She knows the secret to a powerful visualization! I explained to her that she shouldn’t only go through the steps in her visualization, but to imagine she is actually dancing on stage, with the facial expressions and emotions she would put into it if she were dancing for judges. This creates a whole new level of learning and a whole new level of what creating the future you want.

Michael Phelps, Olympic record-breaking swimmer revealed that he used visualization continually prior to the Olympics. He even set specific time limits in his imagination for each race, many of which were exactly like those he actually accomplished during his races. I guess he knew the secret to a powerful visualization!

Bring your visualization to life by seeing the image as if you were experiencing it that very moment, by using all of your senses, and by feeling the vibration of having already received it. I take you through the specific, easy techniques of how to see your future by bringing in colors, lights, focus, and adjusting the picture so it is believable, in my 46 minute audio download, SENSORY IMAGING IS POWERFUL.   Experience the secret to a powerful visualization and then make it a habit. Your life will change by leaps and bounds!

Albert Einstein knew that your IQ, your imagination quotient was more important than your other IQ, your intelligence quotient, when he said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge!”It’s not only powerful to hold specific images in your mind, it’s fun to see them come true and know you created them.

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What is the Secret to How You Socialize

Posted on: August 10th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen
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What is the Secret to how you socialize

What is the secret to how you socialize?  How you act at a party and socialize has everything to do with the Law of Attraction?

Most people don’t even know that the specific energy, which they were born with, determines the way they interact with others. They don’t know how that inborn energy and the Law of Attraction determine whether or not they have outstanding relationships. What is the secret to having amazing relationships? Knowing your energy type using it to your social advantage.

Do you ever ‘people-watch’? It’s one of my favorite things to do. At a party recently I was people watching and I noticed the energy of the ‘Brilliants’. What is he secret about Brilliants? They bring sunshine to everyone in the room; they offer optimism, fun and brilliance. Often, they are the life of the party.

People who enjoy a dominant ‘Stream’ energy floats through the room carefully checking on the emotional well-being of their friends. What is the secret behind every Stream energy type? They check on you because they truly care. They are loyal supporters and friends!

The ‘Movers’ work the roomaccomplishing everything they had planned in advance to achieve. What is the secret being the mover energy type? Their secret goal is getting things done. They take action and are always focused on a project-or two or three.

The ‘Regals’ don’t talk, so you might think they’re aloof and a bit stuck up. What is the secret behind the Regal energy type? They aren’t stuck up at all-they are the observers. They aren’t real talkative, but when they are, everyone listens because they say something worthwhile.

Everyone, and everything in nature, is a combination of all four of these energies. You walk, talk, dress, think, and socialize according to your dominant energy. Want more outstanding relationships? Want to know what personal energy runs your life? You should – because when you find out, you’ll want to dress with clothes that reflect that energy. When people see on the outside who you are on the inside, you enjoy more satisfying relationships, attract more customers, and make more money.

When you learn how the Law of Attraction is affecting you personally, you can take advantage of your personal energy to attract more outstanding relationships. Learn more about the Law of Attraction ‘On you’ in the video Key #2 in my Law of Attraction Mastery WOW System below. When you learn how the Law of Attraction is affecting your relationships, you won’t be asking, What is the secret?

You CAN being your dreams to life!

Glenda Feilen

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