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What is Confidence? Do You Have Good Self Esteem?

Posted on: August 16th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen

Have good self esteemWhat is confidence? Do you have good self esteem? Answer this question and you will know: Are you arrogant or confident? There is one big difference between arrogance and confidence and good self esteem. Arrogance is about proving yourself because you feel inadequate or fearful that you aren’t enough. Confidence, on the other hand is about improving yourself. When you have confidence, your main concern is not with another person, but with yourself. It’s about becoming a better you, usually by helping others.

What is confidence? Think about the most arrogant person you know. Do you really think this person has good self esteem? The answer is ‘No’. He or she constantly puts on an arrogant facade because he or she secretly feels that if you were to see the real person inside, you wouldn’t approve. Now, think of the most confident person you know. If that person is truly confident, he or she likes who they are inside-and is caring and compassionate to others.

It sad when a person suffers from arrogance; however what is also sad is that the people around them also suffer. Arrogant people secretly become happy when others fail or have flaws because they don’t have good self esteem, whereas a person with confidence will help others to succeed and respect who they are, even with their imperfections.

What’s the fix for arrogance? The answer is in this quote: “To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.” Do not wish you were someone else, but love who you are. You have a built in image maker and when you use it you can have good self esteem. You learn to value yourself and gain confidence. When you begin to visualize yourself as you wish to be, you feel differently about yourself and therefore act differently. It’s a simple, little exercise to change how you feel about yourself. When you do this, you will be proud of yourself and will enjoy life so much more because you will have good self esteem.

Learn simple, easy techniques of using your built-in image maker to change the way you feel about yourself and others in my WOW SYSTEM. Your self-worth and confidence will grow by leaps and bounds when you use the Law of Attraction from inside out!

You CAN bring your dreams to life!

Glenda

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