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Be Happy Anyway!

Posted on: November 7th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen


Keep your thoughts above the happy line

Being Happy is up to you!

Do you want to be happy? Sounds like a silly question, but not really.

Abraham Lincoln said, “Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Believe it or not, many folks make up their minds not to be happy.

Why would anyone not want to feel happy? When people are unhappy, they have something to complain about. When they aren’t happy, they can be a victims and blame someone else for their problems. When people aren’t happy, it’s their way of opting out of being in charge of their own lives.

No one else is responsible for your life or for the way you feel. You are totally in control of whether your thoughts and feelings are happy or unhappy. Perhaps someone else did or said something that has triggered a negative emotional response in you. It’s up to you to choose whether to stay with that negative feeling or change it to a happy one.

If you choose not to be happy because of someone else, it’s pretty ridiculous. They probably said or did something only once, however when you replay it in your mind you let it hurt you over and over again. When you’re feeling sad or mad, remember you chose to react that way so you are responsible for how you are feeling. The only person who gets hurt by focusing on the negative is you.

Things and people do not make you happy or unhappy. You make yourself happy or unhappy. You have to decide to be happy no matter what happens. Things don’t have to be perfect for you to be happy. If you wait until things are perfect to be happy, you will never be happy because things will never stay perfect. Life is full of constant change.

If you find yourself not being happy, just say, “Oops,” and change your thoughts. Become happy by changing your thoughts to something that does make you happy. Choose something uplifting and you will instantly feel uplifted. Don’t be mad at your self for feeling negative because that is another reason you’ll have not to be happy. Set yourself up to be happy by deciding to make a sharp u turn in your emotions. You can go from down to up simply by putting a new picture in your mind – one that makes you happy. Anyone can do it. Anyone can choose to be happy. Once you’ve made the ‘happy-choice’, the rest is easy.



Do You Have Contaminated Thoughts?

Posted on: October 31st, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Negative thoughts create a negative life

Negative thoughts create a negative life

If you take control of your thoughts, your life will go to a whole new level. Do you go through the day with contaminated thoughts or thoughts that renew your mind?

Contaminated thoughts bring disappointment and failure. Positive, uplifting thoughts bring you prosperity and better relationships.

If you don’t delete dark, contaminated thoughts, they can turn your life into a failure. Contaminated thoughts are those you picked up in your past. You are preoccupied with all the mistakes you have made in thee past. They are condemning or accusing thoughts. If you find you are beating yourself up with your thoughts, do not believe your them. You are not supposed to go around feeling badly about yourself all day. Contaminated thoughts constantly remind of you of what you aren’t, what you don’t have, and how your goals aren’t going to come to pass.

Sometimes, it’s not your contaminated thoughts that cause you harm, it’s the negative things other people say to you. Whether you or someone else speak the thoughts, they are seeds that become your reality.

Maybe when you were a child, a teacher, a parent, a coach spoke their contaminated thoughts about you. They said you weren’t going to be successful or you weren’t talented. You heard them and stored them in your mental computer. They contaminated your software and you are still hearing those things in your thoughts. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission so time get rid of those contaminating viruses which will contaminate your life. It’s time to replace those with new software.

Hit the delete button on negative thoughts

Hit the delete button on negative thoughts

When you catch yourself thinking one of  those dark thoughts, mental see yourself hitting the DELETE button. Once you have done that think of a new, uplifting, opposite thoughts and mentally hit enter and feel that thought. The vibrations and energy of of the positive thought will mind and body and create a new way of thinking.

You can also stop others from spewing their negative thoughts in your presence by telling them to ‘stop it’ or stay away from them.

Make no mistake, contaminated thoughts create a contaminated mind set which results in a contaminated life. The good news is that they can be stopped at an moment you decide because you are one hundred percent in charge of your thoughts.

You now how to change. You know the process of changing your thinking software….Delete and Enter. Negative thoughts go and uplifting, successful thoughts take their place.

You’ll Never be Happy if You Say This

Posted on: October 25th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Never say certain words if you want to be happy

Never say certain words if you want to be happy

There is a science to being happy exactly like there is a science of getting rich. In the words of Wallace D. Wattles, who wrote The Science of Getting Rich,  “The ownership of money and property comes as a result of doing things in a certain way.”  He was right and it is a statement that can also be said about being happy. The ability to be happy comes as a result of doing things a certain way.

One way to be happy is to have a happy attitude about where you are and what you are doing. A happy attitude is a result of happy thoughts, happy feelings and specific words that lead to happiness.  Delete the following thoughts and words from your vocabulary. These words will never result in a happy you.

I’m so frustrated that…

I’m worried that…

I’m stressed about…

I don’t want…

I should have, but….

I could have, but….

If only…..

These words will not result in a happy attitude because they invoke feelings of doubt, stress, worry, frustration, and that things aren’t as good as they should be. It’s easy to change your sad words into happy words once you are aware of the problem and observe what you think and say.

For example, rather than saying, “I really need to get out of debt, ” which brings up a sad feeling, you could say, “I love being debt free,” which would bring a happy feeling.

Sad feeling words are, “I’m so stressed about this situation.” Happy feeling words are, “One thing I can be happy about is that this situation is giving me a lot of valuable experience.”

Sad feeling words are, “I hate my job.” Happy feeling words are, “Something I love about my job is …”

Sad feeling words are, “I’m worried about…”   Happy feelings are, “I know this is going to turn out in an amazing way.”  

Happy words bring a happy attitude

Happy words bring a happy attitude

Start observing your words and when you find yourself uttering something that won’t result in a happy attitude, changing your words.

Your attitude always shows, especially when you are in the presence of children. Your words influence whether they are happy now and in the future. Keep a happy feeling in your attitude and words and you will not only have a happy child, your child will have a happy future.

Using happy words creates a happy attitude and a successful future. This is a great time to start the habit  of using only ‘happy words’.

Thoughts are Habits in Your Mind

Posted on: August 16th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Your life is a result of your thought habits

Your life is a result of your thought habits

We all have habits of thinking the same thing over and over again, day after day, year after year for our entire lifetime. Over 80 percent of what you think about daily (your thought habits) is what you thought about yesterday, and the day before, and the day before. The problem is that your automatic thought habits create your life. 

Look at your life, your relationships, and your prosperity level.  Are they exactly the way you want them to be? If not, you can change them. If your life has a problem, your habits of thought  have a problem. To change your life, you simply have to change your thinking habits.

You are a result of your dominant thoughts. Your happiness level is a result of your constant habits of  thought. The fact is that these thoughts seep deep into your creative mind and create every aspect of your life. Your life is a result of what you’ve thought about and what you’ve allowed others to implant in your creative mind.

How does it work? Your subconscious mind begins being programmed in infancy. It is programmed by your parents, your teachers, your peers, your television, and everything in your environment. Everything that you hear or see, and everything that creates an impression on your mind, is leaving its bit of information in your creative computer. Your creative mind is like a computer and your current personal thought habits are a result of all the things you’ve experiences, seen and heard so far in your life. If you want to know what is stored in your creative mind, simply look at your life.

Every aspect of your life is created by what your subconscious mind is programmed to accomplish. If you are not satisfied with your life in every respect, then it’s time to supply your subconscious mind with some new software which will result and new habits of thought. Another reason to change any negative thought habits is because thoughts also affect your habits of speech – and the words you say have a great effect of your attitude and your life.

Good news! Your conscious mind can reprogram or change your subconscious mind by consciously placing new and different thoughts in it. Your conscious mind is always actively thinking. If you are not consciously having habits of thought about what you want in a constructive way, you are probably  unconsciously having habits of thought about what you don’t want in a destructive way. By controlling habits of thoughts you feed your creative mind what you want, you are in control of your life and your future.

Thoughts are habits in your mind reproduced into your physical world. Thoughts are things and what you think about comes about. If you want to know what a person thinks about, look at his life.

Look at your habits. The most important habits to change are those have to do with your automatic thinking. When you find yourself thinking of something you don’t want, take charge! Decide on a song, a thought, a wonderful experience that you can think of instead of the negative thought. Habits can be changed. When you do this, soon you habits of thought will change…and soon your life will change.


How to be happy Thinking Above the Line

Posted on: August 15th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Keep your thoughts above the happy line

Keep your thoughts above the happy line

Have you ever heard of the happy line? If not, you will be happy to know that it can improve every area of your life. 

To be happy you must keep your thoughts above the happy line. Similarly, to maintain a prosperous  life, you must keep your thoughts above the happy line.

The thoughts you choose can actually be measured. ‘Above the happy line’ thoughts are those that vibrate at a rate of speed that attract positive, prosperous things into your life. ‘Below the happy line’ thoughts attract things, people, and situations that don’t make you happy or prosperous.

What kind of thoughts are above the happy line? Thoughts that bring up feelings of acceptance, love, respect, and hope make you happy.

Keep your thoughts above the happy line

Keep your thoughts above the happy line

Above the happy line thoughts are those that focus on what you have rather than what you don’t have. They are thoughts when you take responsibility for everything that happens in your life, rather than making excuses and playing the victim. Happy line thinking is when you expecting the best, rather than doubting. When you think above the happy line, you take action to get the results you want, rather than procrastinating.

Thoughts where you respond to something that happens in a positive way-rather than reacting in a negative way will bring good into your life.

When you think thoughts below the happy line, you are feeling anger, resentment, guilt, hopelessness, and fear. When you judge others, your thinking is far away from the happy line. When you feel stuck or make excuses, you will stay stuck unless you elevate your thoughts above the happy line. In short, you must kick out toxic thoughts.

Related: What Can Hold You Back?

At all times, you are in total control of your thoughts. Once you make it a habit to bring your thoughts up from below the happy line, it becomes easier and easier. You will also see more happiness and prosperity in your life.

Now you know what the happy line is, you can stay happy by maintaining high vibrating thoughts.

Be Happy, Kick Out Toxic Thoughts

Posted on: August 9th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
You must think happy to be happy

You must think happy to be happy

You can’t be happy if you think toxic thoughts. Thoughts are habits in your mind reproduced into your physical world. Thoughts are things and what you think about comes about. If you think about happy things, happy people, happy situations, you will be happy. If you think toxic, angry thoughts, you will have an angry life with angry people and situations which cause anger.

If you want to know what a person thinks about, look at his life.

Toxic thoughts stop you from being happy because they pollute your mind. Just like toxic food can make your sick, toxic thoughts will make a sad, miserable life. How can you be happy by thinking thoughts which are not uplifting? You can’t. You will not be happy by thinking thoughts which do not support your goals. You will not be happy by thinking thoughts which are uncomplimentary to yourself and others.You will be happy by thinking about how you will feel when you reach your goal. You will be happy when you think about how capable you are. Being happy is a state of mind you create.

Don’t let the toxic thoughts of others stop you from being happy. When you hear others speak or act in a way that creates negative thoughts in your mind, purge those people from your life just as you would purge poisonous food from your physical body. Make it a habit to hang with people who are happy.

Related: Should You Change Your Thoughts?

Napoleon Hill knew thoughts can make your life happy or unhappy. In his book LAW OF SUCCESS he tells us about the disaster of negative and toxic thinking: The subconscious mind makes no distinction between constructive and destructive thought impulses. It works with the material we feed it, through our thought impulses. The subconscious mind will translate into reality a thought driven by fear just as readily as it will translate into reality a thought driven by courage or faith.

You choose to be happy with happy thoughts

You choose to be happy with happy thoughts

He said that toxic thoughts can lead you down into the valley of misery, failure, and poverty. Like the wind which carries one ship east, and another west, (your thoughts) will lift you up or pull you down, according to the way you set your sails of thought. It’s time you set you sails of thought on what makes you happy.

 To be happy, you must create thoughts which will make you happy. Think of your subconscious or creative mind as soil. Your conscious thoughts are seeds that you plant in your subconscious mind and expect to reap in your outward life. In a garden, if you planted wheat, you would expect wheat to grow. You would never think of planting wheat and getting corn. It’s the same with your conscious thoughts. Toxic thoughts are like planting weeds in your mental garden which will never result in a happy relationship or a happy financial situation. If you think about and plant happy, positive, thoughts, you can expect happy, positive specific results to manifest in your life. If you dwell on negative, violent, sad, resentful thoughts, you can only expect to see a life filled with negativity, violence, sadness, and resentment. If you do not plant seeds in your creative mind, but haphazardly allow whatever blows in to fill your precious creative soil. This usually results in your fulfilling other people’s goals which will only make them happy.

 Consider what would happen if you decided not to take control of your car when you are in the driver’s seat. It would swerve off the road, enter a place where it shouldn’t go, and you would end up with a disaster of a vehicle. That is not so different from your life. You are in the driver’s seat of your life and if you don’t take control with conscious thoughts, you could end up with disaster. By controlling your conscious mind, you can insert a new program in your creative mind. Just as a magnet attracts, the mind attracts the things equivalent of your most prominent thoughts. That is why it is impossible for a negative mind to attract positive things. If you think negative angry thoughts, you attract failure and despair. On the other hand, if you train your mind to think only positive, happy thoughts, you will be happy.

Emerson said, “The key to every man is his thought.” You are the result of your voluntary habitual thinking. You are where you are and what you are because of your established habits of thought. You may control your earthly destiny simply by exercising the privilege of shaping your own thoughts. The key to being happy is to think happy thoughts!

Thought control is only one way of using the Law of Attraction to bring you the life your want. Can you do it? Can you constantly think happy thoughts/ Can you really change the way you think?  You can – and it’s worth it because whether you are happy depends on it. You have complete control over your mind. Consciously, think about what you are thinking about and make it a habit to replace toxic thoughts with happy thoughts. Isn’t it time for you to be happy?


Feel Good for a Good Reason

Posted on: July 20th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Feel good and good comes to you

Feel good and good comes to you

How often do you feel good? I hope you said, “I constantly feel good. I constantly feel fabulous!”

Why do I hope you are a ‘feel-gooder”? Because the more you feel good, the more good will come into your life.

When you feel good, your feelings send messages to to other people and to the universe. How you feel determines the energy that is vibrating outward from within you. Each feeling you have sends a specific vibratory message.

Just as important, of course, is the fact that when you feel bad, more bad things, situations and people will come into your life.

People don’t realize how important it is to constantly feel high energy, positive feelings. They don’t understand that how they feel actually creates their future life.

you have complete control

Einstein said to match the reality of the things you want with their vibratory rate and they are sure to come to you. He said, “Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. It’s just physics.”                                                                                                 

How do YOU feel?

How do YOU feel?

So what are ‘good’ feelings and what are ‘bad feelings’? Take a look the emotional guidance chart. You feel good and bring good into your life when you feel free, joy, love, appreciation, enthusiastic, optimistic, expecting the positive, and hopeful. When you feel these happy feelings you are climbing the happiness ladder. When you feel contentment, your life will probably not move forward, but stay at a level of contentment.

What are ‘bad’, low vibrational feelings attracting into your life? When you feel bored, pessimistic, frustrated, irritated, frustrated, impatient, worried, doubtful, discouraged, angry, revengeful, hateful, jealous, afraid, insecure, guilty, worthless, unworthy, or depressed.

Read the list of feelings. Which of them do you feel most of your awake hours? If you feel mostly the ‘feel-good feelings’, you are on the right track to improving your life. The high on the upward spiral you feel, the quicker your life will improve. If you feel mostly ‘feel-bad’ feelings’, the ones on the downward spiral, your life is spiraling down ward.

The good news is that you have 100% complete control over your feelings. You choose how you decide to feel, the same way you have a choice about which thoughts stay in your mind. Choose good feelings  if you want a good life. Stay in your comfort zone and with bad feelings and stay in your bad life.



What if the World Could See Your Thoughts?

Posted on: May 10th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Thoughts are seeds that grow your life

Thoughts are seeds that grow your life

What if the world could see your thoughts? Well, it can! You truly are what you think. You are the sum total of your dominant thoughts. Your thoughts each have a vibration and a feeling. The vibration and feeling of your thoughts magnetically attract an exact likeness into your life.

If you want to know what some one thinks about, look at their life. Thoughts are the seeds that grow your life. If you have weeds as thoughts – your life will be full of weeds. If you have beautiful seed thoughts of health, success, love, your life will grow those exact things.

Your subconscious mind is filled with fertile soil and the seeds you sow go deep into the soil and become the people and situations in your life. You’ve probably heard, “What you focus on – expands.” This is because your seed thoughts grow and become the details of your life.

You have the power to determine which seed thoughts you plant. You can only think of one thing at a time. When thoughts pop into your mind that will not grow your life into the way you desire, quickly change them. Have a pre-planned event, that gives you high vibrational, good feelings, and switch to that thought.

Thoughts are habits . The majority of the thoughts you think each day are those you have thought the day before and the day before and so on. You can change the habit of thinking thoughts of what you don’t want as easily as you can change any other habit. Making a conscious effort.

Learn easy techniques think about what you are thinking about in my WOW SYSTEM.


Be an Image Maker

Posted on: April 23rd, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Put a new image in your subconscious mind

Put a new image in your subconscious mind

Why be an image maker? If you don’t know this, you don’t know how the Law of Attraction works. Here’s the secret to both: All change begins on a conscious level but can only happen on a subconscious level. When you know this, you know how to make a better you and create success.

If the subconscious mind is where all life change really happens, the real question is how to make changes on a subconscious level. You make these changes by creating new images in your mind. When you create new images, you are putting new software in the your subconscious computer, you can create a whole new vibration.

You have the ability to create any image you want on the screen of your mind. When you create that  image with the feeling that you would feel if that image were already a physical reality, it instantly and automatically begins to be expressed within you and through you. That emotionalized image instantly changes your vibration the very minute you put it in your mind. The image sets up a whole new attractive force. The image is impregnating the cells of your brain and body. It is like a huge magnetic force which begins to attract everything you need to manifest the image. The image creates a forward motion in your being so that every molecule of your body begins to move forward with the new energy of the image.

What image is in your mind?

What image is in your mind?

You have the ability to change what can happen to you. Create the image of what you want as if it were an experience you were having, rather than a image like a photograph. Use all of your senses as your experience your image. Your subconscious mind does not know the difference between imagined with feeling and what’s real.

Learn important steps to create your image so that it manifest quickly in my WOW SYSTEM.


Everything Begins with a Thought

Posted on: July 5th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen

Hi Everyone! Hope you had a great holiday! Doesn’t it feel nice when you are relaxing and spending time with loved ones? Did you know, everyday you can feel as good as you want, and is all starts with your THOUGHTS. Both prosperity and poverty are the offspring of thoughts. Napoleon Hill. Law of Attraction expert, made a point of saying, “The thoughts we acknowledge become self suggestions that sink into your creative computer.” Well then, I guess the big question is – how do we ‘acknowledge a thought’?

Did you know, there is a way to make your thoughts a thousand times more powerful than they normally would be? Whether your thought is original with you, one from someone else, or whether it comes from something we are seeing and hearing, unless you mix emotion or feeling with your thought, it is not being acknowledge and it will not be benefit you nor be programmed into your future.

Your thoughts are either filed away in your creative mind to create your future or you reject them because no emotions are attached to them. Thoughts are things and through the Law of Attraction, your emotionalized thoughts will attract clients, or a lack of them into your life. Your thoughts will attract personal relationships and romance, or a lack of them into your life.Your thoughts will attract money, or the lack of it, into your life. Thoughts are FREE and you get to choose what they will be!

You can learn to control your thoughts, and acknowledge the ones you want to program into your future by downloading my 51 minute digital audio book, EVERYTHING BEGINS WITH A THOUGHT, from my Law of Attraction Mastery WOW System. When you change the way you think about things, the things you think about change. With my audio book, you can learn thought control techniques and  become an expert on changing your thoughts. It sounds like a simple thing to do and it is, but only if you know how.

You CAN bring your dreams to life!