A habit is a chain to success or failure

There is a habit that can bring you money, success, happiness, and empowering relationships. It’s a habit you want to cultivate. This habit is one that only a minority of people have. What is it? It is the way you respond to any given situation, circumstance, or event.

I’m sure you want to cultivate the habit of responding like a happy, successful person responds—right? Dr. James Hardt, the  world’s expert on brain waves, tells us that the brainwave activity of a happy, successful, optimistic person is completely different from the responses of a person who is unhappy, pessimistic, and unsuccessful.

After many years of research, Dr. Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania also found that an optimistic, successful person  has a habit of interpreting events in a way that keeps their minds positive and their emotions under control.

How do they do that? They have a habit of talking to themselves in positive ways! Whenever they experience any adversity or problem, they have a habit of quickly describing it to themselves in a way that destroys its ability to trigger negative emotions or feelings of helplessness in themselves.

Every habit is a link in a chain that binds you and keeps us from living life to the fullest. The chains of habits are generally too small to be felt until they are too strong to be broken easily. Dr. Seligman named his book Learned Optimism because he said responding this way is just a habit that can be learned. Breaking a habit simply takes focus and patience. This habit is one that will change the course of your life forever when you learn to respond as happy, successful, prosperous people do.

Since 95% of what you think and say today is exactly what you thought and said yesterday, and the day before that, and the day before that, so how you respond is a habit! To change your normal response, simply be aware of your usual habit and speak to yourself differently.

You can learn to talk to yourself in a positive way no matter what situation you’re in. Next time you feel discouraged—take control. You should be, and can be your own best coach with a habit of speaking to yourself in positive ways. Learn an easy step-by-step ways to change this habit and many more in the WOW SYSTEM. 

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