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Is There Someone You Want to Fix or Change?

Posted on: November 21st, 2011 by Glenda Feilen
You can't change him - make him a prince as he is

You can't change him - make him a prince as he is

Do you want to make a little change in someone? Would they be better if you just fixed them a bit?

There is only one problem with wanting to change someone. You can’t change them. Only they can change them. If you changed them, they would not be them.

Did you ever hear this phrase? If it looks like a frog, and croaks like a frog, and leaps like a frog – it’s a frog. You saw a frog and heard the croak, but you thought you could change that frog into a prince. It only works that way in the movies. A frog doesn’t really change into a prince just because you wish it.

When you try to change or fix someone, you are saying them, “You are broken. There is something wrong with you.” No one wants to hear that, especially if they know you want them to change.

The best thing to do is to let him (or her, of course) know that you love them just the way they are. Accept who they are right now – not who he or she can be when they change. That would be a big change – right? That change would be in you, though. It would be your attitude that makes the change.

Oh…that’s the way it works, when you change, they will change too! First, you have to fix you.

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