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You Must Give to Receive Money

Posted on: April 16th, 2013 by Glenda Feilen


You must give to receive

You must give to receive

It’s a law that you MUST give to receive. Many people don’t get it – they want to receive before they give.

Do this: hug yourself. Are you in a position to receive? No way! You are all closed up and only able to give to yourself. Now unfold your arms, open them, and extend them forward as if you are in the positive to give-and look, you are also in the exact right position to receive.

Many people don’t understand they must circulate money. When you give, you keep the energy of money flowing outward. Only when there is flow outward can there be a flow back to you.

How do you flow money unless you give it away?

  • Give when you pay your bills. As you pay with money, a check, a credit card, send the person or company blessings. Give them love along with the money.
  • It doesn’t matter how little you have, you always have something to give. Allow yourself to give  appreciation, gratitude, thankfulness for others. Give to others with the emotions and vibrations of generosity, love, and support. Give verbally and in writing. Give praise. When you say something good about a person or situation, you are telling the universe, “I want this!”
  • Give a ‘tithe’ to a church, charity, or someone in need. This is an ancient principle. The world ‘tithe’ means tenth. In ancient times people knew the number 10 was a magic number and they gave a tenth. By giving a tithe or a tenth of your income, you are acknowledging your Divine Source, the Source of all things you receive.
  • Give to yourself. You always want to give ten percent to yourself before you pay bills or any obligation.
  • Give thoughts, words and feelings of lavish abundance to everyone. Speak well of them and their money. Give energy to them of becoming prosperous. Magnetically charge them with abundance because what you put out comes back to you. This will keep you in the vibrational place of receiving everything you are asking for.

As you give, pay attention to how you feel. When you give, your thoughts and emotions become a vibrational match of what you are trying to bring into your life. You will never receive what you want if you are feeling the absence of it and worried that it won’t appear. Because if you are, it won’t appear.

You can consciously change your emotions whenever you want. Simply feel gratitude to get into a high emotion. Everyone has something to be grateful for. How do you make money? Imagine a Meter that would read your vibrations. If it were pointed at you, what money vibration do you think it would read?When you give with an open heart, what you give comes back multiplied.

Watch this video and learn more about giving:

Gratitude-the Great Multiplier

Posted on: November 14th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Gratitude is the great multiplier

Gratitude is the great multiplier

Gratitude is the great multiplier. How so? It’s a law. It’s just the way the universe works.

It’s because the Law of Attraction is always at work in your life…every second, every minute, every day, and every year, throughout your whole life. Many people don’t think of it that way, but have the idea that, ‘it’s there for me when I want to use it’.

Thanksgiving is a time when we get together with our families and give thanks for everything we have. What better time than Thanksgiving to start applying the Law of Gratitude every day. Gratitude is the great multiplier when it comes to the Law of Attraction.

I love the saying, ‘What if you woke up TODAY with only the things that you thanked God for YESTERDAY.’

The fact is, when you start feeling gratitude for more of what you have, you will have more. It always works. At Thanksgiving, it feels so good to sit down surrounded by family and friends. Why not feel this love and gratitude  every day? During one Thanksgiving dinner at my home, we each took a moment and shared at least one thing that we were grateful to have in our lives. Perhaps, this Thanksgiving you could sit down and writing a list of the things for which you feel gratitude, and then take a moment to read your gratitude list every day. Of course, you will constantly be adding to it, won’t you?

Gratitude sends you gifts

Gratitude sends you gifts

Imagine how plentiful your life could be, if you took the time every day to multiply your love and prosperity by express by expressing your gratitude. There is an expansion principle in the Law of Attraction that says, ‘What you focus on expands.’ When you add the feeling of love and gratitude to your focus, it multiplies the attraction exponentially. 

How do you become ‘more grateful’ than you already are now? When someone does something nice for you, really feel the gratitude, rather than just saying thank you. If someone were to give you flowers, each time you look at them, feel the gratitude for the gift, smell them, and love their beauty. One step beyond gratitude is ‘awe’. Being in the state of awe is one of the highest vibrations there is. Being in the feeling of ‘awe’ is to constantly have overwhelming joy with the wonderfulness of those things that surround you and come into your life. It’s redirecting a negative thought in the other direction and making it not only a positive thought but an awesome thought…and feeling.

Gratitude is feeling good every one of the 86,400 seconds in day. Gratitude is refocusing a negative thought that slipped into your mind by giving thanks, Enjoy the process,  because when you do, your life will move forward in a beautiful, prosperous, harmonious way.

Giving thanks can cause miracles in your life. Let’s face it, gratitude is the best attitude!

If it Doesn’t Make You Happy – Why Do It?

Posted on: August 22nd, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
Design yourself a happy life

Design yourself a happy life

If it doesn’t make you happy, why the heck are you doing it? Do you seriously think about how to be happy? You can design your life to bring you joy if you choose to. The problem is, many people do not choose to be happy.

In a recent study, more than 900 women wrote down everything they had done the day before. Upon reviewing their day, most of the women were shocked at how much time they spent on things they didn’t like which didn’t make them happy. Some of them were so sad, they cried. They had never thought about the fact that being happy was something they could design and have control over.

Sometimes people actually think it’s not okay to be happy unless every one around them is happy. That’s simply a goofy way to think! Allow yourself to be happy! It’s not wrong to be happy. If you wait for everyone in the world to be happy and every problem you have to be solved, and every goal you’ve set to be fulfilled…forget happy.
Research shows that happy people are more successful, make better spouses, better parents, have more gratitude, and help others more. Happy people let
Happy now means a happy future

themselves have fun.

Related: Are you Giving Thanks Enough?

Not only do the circuits in your brain light up when you are happy, you are sending messages to your whole body which result in healthier cells. The best reason to be engaged in things that make you happy is that you are sending messages to your subconscious mind and to the universe that your are happy. What you send out, is what returns to you multiplied. The constant energy that is within us and that surrounds us each moment determines our future moments. If you want more happy in your life, BE happy now.

Take a look at your life. Does your career make you happy? Are you in a relationship which makes you happy? Do you find yourself feeling happy when you are with your friends? What do you need to change. It ‘s you life – you design it. If you say, “I can’t,” you are right – because victims will never be happy. When you let someone else design your life, you are a victim. Evaluate everything you do 24/7. Choose now to be happy!



5 Ways to Get Out of a Funk Fast

Posted on: July 18th, 2012 by Glenda Feilen
5 steps to get out of a funk

5 steps to get out of a funk

I am continually asked, “How do you get out of a funk? First, let’s figure out why do so many people need to get out of a funk. There are many reasons…you may need to get out of financial problems. You may need to get out of the worry of a bad medical report. You may need to get out of an addiction problem, the discomfort of a cranky co-worker, loneliness, a relationship problem, or raising a difficult child.

When you initially discover a problem, even though you feel overwhelmed, you feel a bit of enthusiasm about your ability to overcome it. The real problem is when it lasts longer than you thought it would and you’ve done all you can. That’s when discouragement sets in and you don’t know how to get out of the funk.

 1. To get out of a funk, realize this: If you couldn’t take it, you wouldn’t have allowed it! Realize it’s only temporary. You’re not camping here, it’s temporary. You ARE going to get out of your funk and move forward. 

2. Smile: a sure cure to get out of a funk is to smile, whether you feel like it or not. Research shows your feelings follow your muscles. Put your body in the position you would be if you were feeling fantastic. When you change your physical body, you will instantly change your emotional state and start to get out of a funk. Seriously, you will be happy instantly.

You can get out of a funk

You can get out of a funk

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3. To get out of a funk it is mandatory that you stop thinking and talking about your problem. No complaining! Instead, deliberately expect things to change for the positive today. History shows that we get what we expect. I know you’re used to being in a funk, but it’s time to get out of that victim mentality and to get out of your funk. Your spirit will be renewed.

4. Don’t look at how far you have to go. If you want to get out of a funk look at how far you’ve already come. Look at making it only for today-not for 10 years. Only look at staying out of a funk for today. Tell yourself,” I can have a good attitude just for today; I can have a good attitude just for one more day.” You can get out of the funk just for today.

5. When the intensity is turned up, and things get really bad, know you are close to the end. A woman feels the most pain right before she has her baby. You will feel the most intensity right before you get out of your funk. Hang in there and know that this experience is giving you experience and you are stretching and growing if you get out of the funk by learning as you go.

Do I think it’s easy to get out of a funk? Only if you want it to be. You will get out of a funk if you remember it’s your personal mountain to climb. You’ll get out of the funk if you smile while you’re climbing your mountain, stop talking about your problem, and expect it to end. You’ll get out of the funk when you take it just one day at a time. You will get out of your funk when you realize it’s temporary and it’s in your path to give you experience. Get out of your funk and realize your will be better off than before.

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You Can’t Out Give God

Posted on: May 31st, 2012 by Glenda Feilen


How you give is how you receive

How you give is how you receive

What do you give? How much do you give? Why do you give? Answer those questions and I can tell you how your life is. Do you want more money, more customers, more recognition, better relationships, a meaningful romance, or a better job? I know exactly how you can get it! It’s simple and it only takes a little effort. Make a quick change in what you are putting out-in what you give- in the area you want to have increase.

What happens in your life is in direct relationship to what you give. You are a broadcasting and receiving station. You receive what you give out.

Let me show you what I mean. Right now – tell me what you were just thinking. What were you broadcasting or did you give outward in your thoughts and feelings? What did you last say or do for someone? What did you give without expecting something in return?

The bottom line about your life is that what you give out in your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions is exactly what you receive back in kind. Every thought you give to the universe, every emotion you give to the universe, every word you give to the universe, and every action you give has its counterpart in some circumstance you will eventually encounter.

What a great favor you do yourself when you give out messages of support, cooperation, acceptance, generosity, and love to others. When you do, you are ordering these things back into your life.

God works with universal laws and once you understand how the universal Law of Attraction works, you understand that it’s you who induces others to act toward you the way you want them to act—by what you give out to them.

Give unconditionally in your relationship

Give unconditionally in your relationship

If your relationship isn’t exactly the way you want it, remember that every person in a relationship can only receive the response he or she unconditionally gives the other person.

You are the “master of your fate” and the “captain of your soul” because you have the power to give out thoughts, to give out feelings, to give out words, and give out actions, that creates every circumstance in your life.

When you give out positive energy, the universe returns that energy multiplied. The more you give, the more the universe returns multiplied. Give more service to your customers and watch your sales go up. Give more praise and appreciation to your mate and watch your relationship improve. Give to someone in need and watch your income increase. Give praise to your children about what you appreciate about them and watch your relationship improve. Give appreciation for the health you have, whatever it is, and watch your health improve. One great thing that happens when you give thanks is that you are automatically opening yourself to receive.

Related: Are You Giving Thanks Enough?

Give back biting - get back biting

Give back biting – get back biting

Give out complaints about your customers and watch your sales shrivel. Nag your spouse and see how your relationship withers.  Give nothing away to someone in need and watch your income drop. Give words of criticism behind the back of your co-workers and watch the security of your job diminish or someone else get a promotion.  Give complaints that you are always sick and watch your health get a little worse. You might not see it quite this clear cut in your life, but you will see it. A word of caution – sometimes, it’s a little difficult to recognize that the energy you give out is transmitted right back into your life. It may not always bounce back exactly in the same area as give it out. It WILL bounce back multiplied.

Isn’t it fun knowing you can improve anything in your life you want, anytime you want? Simply give more!

It’s not what you wish for that come back to you. It is what you give. So – the next time you wish to make a change in your world-or in someone, realize YOU need to make the change and give more.


Saying ‘Thanks’ is Crucial

Posted on: November 26th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen


Because saying ‘Thanks‘ is so crucial, first, let me say, “Thanks! for reading this. I am grateful for you!”

Gratitude for the things you have in your life is of crucial importance because it brings you into alignment with your Higher Power. By saying thanks for what you have, it brings you into alignment with the things you desire.

Saying thanks is an important key for using the Law of Attraction, because saying thanks for what we already have tells the Universe to bring you more to be grateful for.

It is said that ‘thanks’ is the highest form of thought and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.

A great way to say thanks is to have a gratitude journal. Just for 2 weeks, take a few moments in the evening to say thanks for things and people during your day. Another valuable tool is to write in your gratitude journal in the morning and say thanks in advance for the day you wish to have. Remember, everything is created spiritually before it is created physically. When you write thanks in advance, you are creating it spiritually.

Don’t underestimate the power of saying thanks! It’s a very powerful tool for abundance in every area of your life.


To Not be Happy is to Not be Grateful

Posted on: November 23rd, 2011 by Glenda Feilen
 Be happy!

Be happy!

Happy people are grateful people. Happy people don’t complain. Do you ever complain?

Do you complain about your husband sitting on the couch at night watching too much TV? Be happy and grateful that he isn’t out of the house at the bars.

Do you complain about your all the things you have to do around the house? Be happy and grateful you have home. Many people are homeless.

Do you complain about the government? Be happy and grateful you live in a country where you can complain about the government thanks to the first amendment. I’ve lived in one where you can’t and it’s not a happy place!

I'm happy

I'm happy

Do you complain when you have to park so far out in the parking lot that you have to walk a long way to the mall. Be happy and grateful you have a car to park and that you are healthy enough to walk to the mall.

Do you complain having to pay taxes? Be happy and grateful you have a job that creates the opportunity for you to pay taxes.

Does you teenage daughter complain that she has to do the dishes? Be happy and grateful that she isn’t out on the streets.

When you are happy, you see all that you have instead of all you don’t have. Be happy! Don’t complain.

Learn important secrets about how to be happy and grateful in UNIVERSAL LAWS OF WEALTH,PROSPERITY, AND ABUNDANCE.

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Are You Giving Thanks Enough?

Posted on: November 8th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen
Giving thanks 24/7 is receiving 24/7

Giving thanks 24/7 is receiving 24/7

Giving thanks can cause miracles in your life! It will transform your life and experiences and is the easiest way to change reality.  Sarah Ban Breathnach wrote “Gratitude is the most passionate transformative force in the cosmos.” When you are giving thanks you are becoming a great mind magnet. Whatever you are giving thanks for in life expands-it’s a law. When you are giving thanks sincerely, you unlock the Universe’s abundance treasure chest.

One great thing that happens when you are giving thanks is that you are automatically opening yourself to receive. When you are giving thanks for something, you are sending out an expectation of receiving more of the same or better. When you remember to constantly give thanks you are putting yourself in harmony with your goals and desires, and that energy will attract the person, condition, business, or situation you want to you.

Find yourself giving thanks out loud; giving thanks in silence, giving thanks in writing, giving thanks to others.

When you find one thing, even something small, to give thanks for and you hold that gratitude feeling for as little as 15–20 seconds, many beneficial physiologic changes take place in your body: your immune system is enhanced, increased blood flows to your heart, and your breathing becomes deeper. You not only benefit physically, you benefit spiritually. When you are giving thanks, you are connecting with your higher spiritual Source.

Another great thing-research suggests that giving thanks has tremendous value in helping people cope with stress. Learn how to relieve stress and make quick changes in your life by giving thanks in the WOW SYSTEM.

Want to be 25% Happier?

Posted on: November 4th, 2011 by Glenda Feilen
Be 25% happier!

Be 25% happier!

Do you want to be 25% happier? I’m sure you said, “Yes,” so let’s get started. A happier you is on the way.

There is a crucial component of making anyone happier that most people overlook. Scientific research has shown that regular grateful thinking can make you happier by as much as 25%. The more you think and express gratitude, the happier you become.

Sounds unbelievable, but there is such a thing as a gratitude personality. One of the attributes of this type of personality is optimism. Optimistic people are happier than negative, pessimistic people. Grateful people are healthier. They are smarter and more energetic. Of course they are – what you are feeling multiplies and comes back to you. If you are grateful for your health, you’ll get healthier and more energetic. And then you’ll be happier. If you are grateful for the money you make, you’ll naturally be happier because you’ll make more money. Sound like thanksgiving is something we want to incorporate into your personality?

Gratitude releases ‘happy’ hormones into your blood stream. You are happier because your system is flooded with endorphins. Watch the video below to learn more about how to be 25% happier, and then choose to live with gratitude in your thoughts, words, and feelings.